Hey, we’re impressed that you are here and not checking out the Girls Only page . . . just kidding. Well, sorta. We have pulled together some info to help you in your journey. I hope it helps you to see that it IS possible and there are other guys like you in this world.
Be a man. Be strong. Be courageous. Stand out from the norm.
Choose real love.
Wanna Know What Girls Want . . . Love
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“My Front Porch Lookin In” by Lonestar
“Forever and Ever Amen” by Randy Travis
Loss of focus is a high price to pay for some sex.
A letter from a guy . . .
“Please tell people to wait to have sex, because the pleasure is not worth the pain. We were going to be different. We loved each other. We were mature. We even used birth control. She got pregnant, and now we’re married, and I’m only seventeen. I’m working, trying to get my GED, be a husband, and be a father. How can I be a father? I still want to be a kid. I don’t even think I love her, and now it’s for the rest of
my life. I sometimes wonder what I could have done
with my life.”1
Ok, so this guy is hurting. It is admirable that he is trying to take responsibility for his actions, but he is probably flipping burgers at BK and facing the reality that he has had to set aside his future plans and goals so he can pay for those diapers . . . tough place to be. Guys, most of you are probably starting to think some about what you might like to do with your lives. If you aren’t, maybe you should start that process. . . . Click here for more.
Your sexuality is a gift to your future love.
Guys, believe it or not, your sexuality is quite a gift. It is a symbol of strength, love, trust, faithfulness, freedom, and focus. You see, you may not think of yourself as a gift, but since most people end up getting married one day, you will be the best gift that ever walks into the life of some young lady.
You may not think you are funny enough, or cool enough, or buff enough for some girl to be interested in you, but very likely one day some girl will think you’re the best. Your virginity or abstinence has to do with being a strong man. We all want to know we have what it takes to be the man, to get the job done, to win respect, and impress the girl. The culture is trying to say that to prove you’re a man you have to “get some” from lots of girls. You know, be the “player” like James Bond . . . meet one girl tonight, have sex with her, then meet another tomorrow night and forget the first one. Somehow that is supposed to prove you’re a man who has what it takes. Let’s break that down. . . . Click here for more.
You can get hurt pretty badly.
Yes, most people agree that girls usually get hurt at a younger age, often because they are more emotionally tuned in and put their heart into relationships at a younger age.
But guys do have emotions and do get hurt very deeply. Far more young men commit suicide than young women, and it is almost always associated with a break-up. Often young women are able to share the hurt of rejection with female friends who will listen and try to help them.
Often young men feel alone and ashamed to share their deep hurts with their buddies for fear of more rejection so they try to deal with it alone.
So let’s unwrap a few ideas about the emotional pain guys are dealing with. . . . Click here for more.
Pornography
Pornography is extremely addictive and destructive and it is more available now than it has ever been.
Dr. Reisman specializes in the communication effects of images on the brain, mind, and memory; fraud in the human sexuality field; and the addictive properties of sexually explicit images, commonly called pornography. She emphasized how pornography not only influences behavior but also actually alters brain chemistry, making children most vulnerable to its toxic imagery. . . . Click here for more.
Appointment With Love
By: S.I. Kishor
John Blanchard stood up from the bench, straightened his Army uniform, and studied the crowd of people making their way through Grand Central Station. He looked for the girl whose heart he knew, but whose face he didn’t, the girl with the rose.
His interest in her had begun thirteen months before in a Florida library. Taking a book off the shelf he found himself intrigued, not with the words of the book, but with the notes penciled in the margin. The soft handwriting reflected a thoughtful soul and insightful mind. . . . Click here for more.
